Play & Connect
We have play spaces, unique experiences, and opportunities to connect, spark erotic imagination & be our most free selves.
“I had a lot of first experiences that I don’t think I could have had anywhere else. The container was really powerful and built in a way to hold that personal expansion and exploration. ”
“The festival allowed me to feel empowered in my sexuality and connect with other like-minded people. It gave me sacred space to cultivate my connections and strengthen bonds in a beautiful place with lots of room for spontaneity and fun. ”
“I felt such love and appreciation for the Bonobo community - how inclusive and welcoming it is, [and] how great it is to be celebrated and accepted for being however you are/want to be.”
Main Play Space & Dungeon
Our main play space is a 2,000 square foot sexy arena with plenty of room for horizontal play and dancing. Separately, discover our mood-lit, intimate, and well-equipped dungeon. In either space, you’ll find just the vibe you’re craving in the moment.
Outdoor Fun
Hike around the beautiful Deloro Valley property, enjoy the views, and join community-led outdoor offerings like morning runs and even bird watching. We dine al fresco, and play is welcome on the many lush lawn spaces. This is a gorgeous place to escape all weekend long.
Pool Parties
Our giant pool is the center for daytime connection and play in the sun, powered by music from our amazing DJs.
Unicorn Lounge
A zero pressure, completely nonsexual space for people to share touch, cool off, or even take a quiet nap.
Angel Lounge
Angels are our peer support volunteers, here to provide a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or even help meeting new people. We designate a space for people who need to talk to an Angel or just get away from the more intense social energies of the retreat.